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great advise<br>
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<a class="moz-txt-link-abbreviated" href="mailto:SandersM@aol.com">SandersM@aol.com</a> wrote:<br>
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<pre wrap="">In a message dated 8/5/02 10:08:59 AM, <a class="moz-txt-link-abbreviated" href="mailto:Dwalker@cemcocpa.com">Dwalker@cemcocpa.com</a> writes:<br><br></pre>
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<pre wrap="">tell her to take the boat and give YOU the cash she thinks it is worth<br></pre>
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<pre wrap=""><!----><br>Much as you love the boat, this is exactly the right advice. If she's valued <br>the boat at $30,000, then have your lawyer tell her lawyer that she gets the <br>boat, and you get the credit. This will force the issue. If she REALLY <br>Thinks the boat is worth $30,000, then you win -- you can go out with the <br>cash and buy two more. If she doesn't, it forces her hand in negotiation. <br>"I cut, you choose." If she won't take it at her valued price, then make her <br>state a price at which she is willing to take the boat, and then you get to <br>choose whether to take the boat, or make her take it at her price. It works.<br><br>The trick to surviving divorce is to avoid getting hung up on things. Much <br>as you love ARGO, there are hundreds of Albergs out there, and many good ones <br>on the market. When you get hung up on a thing, it just gives your wife a <br>pressure point to break you with in negotiations. Don't let her break you <
br>with ARGO. If it comes to that, let her go (ARGO, of course!) and get <br>another. Once your wife realizes that you are at peace with letting ARGO <br>go, chances are she'll back down quickly, rather than risk ending up with the <br>boat herself.<br><br>Please excuse my presumptions -- I don't know either of you. If I'm way off <br>the mark, well, the advice is worth every penny you paid for it.<br><br>Sanders McNew.<br> +-----------------------------------------------------------+<br> | Sale on Yale & New England Ropes. Save up to 25 percent. |<br> | <a class="moz-txt-link-freetext" href="http://www.myaffiliateprogram.com/u/sailnet/t.asp?id=1066">http://www.myaffiliateprogram.com/u/sailnet/t.asp?id=1066</a> |<br> +-----------------------------------------------------------+<br><br>_______________________________________________<br>Public-list mailing list -- <a class="moz-txt-link-abbreviated" href="mailto:Public-list@alberg30.org">Public-list@alberg30.org</a><br
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